Thursday, October 1, 2009
to my father
There was a mass in his name and then the church held its annual fundraiser, the Thuya show. It is a musical that covers the 50s to the 90s' songs. What a great way to spend that day; people who lived in our tiny town years ago come back for this event and we sing, we dance and get reaquainted with old friends and neighbours.
My first year without my father has seen me very okay with his passing; he had such a special life and illnesses were taking a huge toll on him. But I really miss our conversations. I could talk to the man just about anything. He would listen without judging, he would never offer that kind of small talk that pretends problems don't exist or waive it as nonexistent. Once in a while, he would offer an encouraging comment. He would not try to magically solve things for me. He would simply listen and let me process thoughts and feelings through...
I miss you, dear man.
During that day, we found out that Beth, a friend of ours who was battling cancer, passed away in the morning. It kind of comforted me to know that my father was there for her...
Love you dad...
Saturday, September 12, 2009
EMMA'S LATEST MISHAPS
Thursday, August 27, 2009
SUPER AQUA CLUB
Thursday, August 13, 2009
AMY'S FIRST EVENT
After yet another rocky season debut, Amy finally participated in her very first eventing competition.
There are 3 disciplines in eventing: dressage, stadium jumping and cross country.
I am very proud of my girl, but mostly I am happy for her. I am happy that she gets to do something she really, really enjoys. The first 10 gets ribbons. Amy placed 8th out of sixty riders in her class. Way to go Ame...
Last week we went to look at a horse for Emma. Her name is Casey's Command. She is a 15 years old Palomino quarter horse who was trained in reining. My cousin who owns her showed Amy how to "spin". Amy, of course, is in love, AGAIN. The best part, though, is that Emma also rode her. And it went great. Casey is small enough for us to walk beside Emma. And she is so calm. We want her so bad but we need to let go of 1 horse before Casey can come home with us. A lady is coming to ride Winston on Monday. Amy will be so sad to see him go. He was her very first show horse, but she is willing to do this so Emma can have her own horse.
Did I mention that Casey is pregnant? By the end of next June, we should have a foal in our field!!!
This Fall, I will get rid of my fear of riding. I will take riding lessons and ride Casey. Then I will truly be able to share with my girls their love of riding. Wish me luck!!!
BEACH PARTY
Last Monday, Emma finally had her Beach Party,'.
Carl chaperoned a bus full of teenagers to 6 flags' La Ronde in Montreal, which he survived.
That trip was going to be too much for Emma, since they were staying until closing time, so we went to the beach instead.
Emma always talks about either a tea party or a beach party. We just love parties...
We were in the water for about 3 hours. I had to coax her out to have a drink and snack. We built sand castles (Emma likes to sit on them...) and she made lots of friends.
Old mom here was all tired out...
We are now getting ready for a huge family gathering (140 people) at our house. Got to love the weather man who is calling for nothing but heat and sunshine...
I'll take you to the beach again, little girl, since you love it so much!!!